Nice Guy Quiz

Too Nice to Turn Her On?

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  • Which “Nice Guy” type you are.
  • The #1 habit that’s killing her attraction to you right now.
  • Why your current approach makes you feel like a roommate instead of a lover.
  • The simple shift that rebuilds respect and sexual polarity.
  • A tailored next step to reignite her desire starting this week.
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"That one session did more for me than three months of marriage counseling

Brandon 52-Married 25 Years. Pennsylvania

divorced twice. Mary helped me find my backbone."

Divorced Twice, Single A Year, Minneapolis

"I didn't know what to do. Mary helped me lead again-and yeah. we're having sex."

Jonathan 40-Married 18 Years. Vancouver

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“That one session did more for me than three months of marriage counseling.”
We’d been to marriage counseling, and it wasn’t helping. Half the time, my wife was too busy to even show up. We were barely hanging on, and the sex was basically gone. After one coaching session with Mary, I saw the whole thing in a different light. She called out my patterns in a way that was sharp but not shaming, and I knew I needed to work on them. I booked another session immediately, and I’ll just say this: We had sex that night for the first time in months.

Brandon, 52 Married 25 years, Pennsylvania

Mary was more prepared than any coach or therapist I’ve worked with
Before our session even started, I could tell Mary was different. She sent me a detailed plan for our session based on the information I'd given her on her scheduling form. I couldn't believe it. The way she made notes on what I'd said helped me sort some things out before our session even happened. On our call, she gave me specific things to try, not vague therapy talk. That same night, I had the best conversation with my wife I’ve had in years. Things between us changed almost immediately.

Andy, 50 Married 23 years, California

“I’ve been divorced twice. Mary helped me find my backbone.”
After two divorces in twelve years, I was done dating. I figured it was safer to stay single. But I also knew I didn’t want to die alone, so I reached out to Mary. She helped me get real about what I actually want and how to stop apologizing for it. I used to think I had to settle for what I could get. Now I know I get to want what I want. I’m dating again, and this time, it feels different.

Darren, 56 Divorced twice, single a year, Minneapolis

“I was tangled up with an escort. Mary didn’t shame me—she helped me think clearly.”
I "caught feelings" for an escort. I knew I was in over my head, and I wasn’t ready to stop seeing her. I also didn’t want to keep lying to myself. Mary never shamed me. She helped me make sense of things. She gave me ways to manage my emotions and have some damn boundaries. If I wanted to keep seeing this woman, it would be with my eyes open. And if I decided to walk away, I could do it on my own terms. That’s what real coaching looks like!

Jeffrey, 63 Divorced after 35 years, Washington D.C.

“I didn’t know what to do. Mary helped me lead again—and yeah, we’re having sex.”
We’d been in a low-sex marriage for five years. I love my wife, but I couldn’t live like that anymore. We were only 40. I couldn't handle the idea of never having sex again. I had questions about technique, hormones, and everything else. Mary gave me real answers. Practical stuff, but also a shift in how I was acting in my marriage. Within a week, I’d led my wife back to bed. She showed me how to do it with no pressure, just my masculine presence. It worked.

Jonathan, 40 Married 18 years, Vancouver

“I didn’t feel man enough. She helped me get my edge back.”
When my business took a hit, my wife’s side hustle became our main income. That's when things started to fall apart. She said it didn’t bother her, but I didn’t believe it. I lost confidence. Our sex life was stale. I was getting into porn more than I wanted to admit. After two sessions with Mary, I finally saw it wasn’t about my wife; it was about me not feeling like a man anymore. She helped me reset. My wife noticed. The sex came back. I'm a happy man!

Raul, 55 Married 20 years, New York City

“We were starting to feel more like buddies. Not anymore.”
Second marriage for both of us. We’ve been together a long time, and it was starting to feel… flat. No sex for weeks, sometimes months. I blamed my wife. After just one session with Mary, I realized I’d stopped leading. She explained what turns women on, what actually makes them feel safe and wanted. I started applying it—and within a couple of weeks, the shift was real. We’re not just buddies anymore. We’re back in the bedroom.

Paul, 57 Married 15 years, Wisconsin

“I was sleeping in the guest room. Now we’re finally talking again.”I married the woman I’d been living with for three years. Once we got married, I was persona non grata in my own home. All of a sudden, everything about me seemed to annoy her. I’d been in the guest room for six months. We weren’t talking, we weren’t touching, and I was ready to give up. Mary didn’t coddle me. She helped me see where I’d checked out, where I was waiting for my wife to fix things instead of showing up like a man. We’re not perfect now, but we’re talking. And I’ve got a clearer head and a real plan.

Bill, 48 Married 2 years, Florida

“I was stuck in a loop—seeing escorts, lying to myself. Mary helped me stop spiraling.”
I started seeing escorts when I was in the army. Thought I’d quit once I got married, but I didn’t. Our sex life was still happening, but it felt forced. Controlled. I didn’t feel wanted. So I kept seeing escorts. They were different ones, nothing serious, but it made me feel like shit. I didn’t want to go to a therapist. What would I tell a therapist? I wanted to talk to someone who understood me. Mary didn’t tell me to stop. She helped me understand why I was doing it, what I was getting out of it, and how to take control of my own damn life again. She never judged me, she even had me laughing. There was no bullshit, just me finally understanding some things about myself and how to be a better man.

Miguel, 32 Married 8 years, Philadelphia

“Our sex life was slowing down. Mary helped me stop being a butthurt husband and start leading again.”
We’ve got two daughters, and after they were born, the sex just started tapering off. I had questions—about hormones, technique, how to get my wife interested again—but didn’t know who to ask. I talked to Mary, and damn. She helped me see where I was acting like I was owed something. I’d gotten demanding, kind of rigid, and pretty butthurt. She gave it to me straight, and it worked. I’m back to being the husband I want to be—and our sex life is better than it’s been in years.

Jake, 45 Married 18 years, two kids, Michigan

About me

Hi, I’m Mary. Thirteen years ago, I stepped away from a long, successful career as a high-end escort and Madame.

Though it was a life few truly understand, that experience gave me a one-of-a-kind perspective on men, intimacy, and the deeper dynamics of sexual and emotional connection. From that foundation, I’ve grown into a dating and relationship coach, a best-selling author, and a happily married woman.

 

 

 

 

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